Wednesday, October 29, 2008

"The Disenfranchisement of the African-American Males, 18 to 35" by Dr. Ron Davis

Dr. Ron Davis currently serves as the founding director of the JAMAR Institute, a consultant group dedicated to improving the genocidal conditions of at-risk communities. Dr. Davis’ premier research, The Disenfranchisement of African American Males, 18 to 35, is affecting change across the country.

Dr. Davis possesses an extensive work history that includes professorship at Fisk University, Strayer University and LeMoyne-Owen College. He has served as a researcher of Biomedical Engineering and Radiation Oncology. Dr. Davis has experience as an entrepreneur, consultant, and state director/NCLB specialist.

Currently, Dr. Davis is in service to Strayer University as the Dean of the Shelby Oaks Campus, in Memphis, Tennessee.

Dr. Davis’ academic endeavors have awarded the following degrees: Bachelor of Science in Physical Science, Master of Education, Master of Arts in Technical Writing, and a Doctorate in Policy Studies.

Dr. Davis enjoys writing and exercising in his spare time. He and his wife, Joyce, of ten years have six children. Dr. Davis and his family reside in Memphis, Tennessee.

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Monday, October 27, 2008


How Can I Tell If a Friend or a Loved One Has a Problem With Alcohol, Marijuana, or Other Illicit Drugs?
Sometimes it is tough to tell. Most people won't walk up to someone they're close to and ask for help. In fact, they will probably do everything possible to deny or hide the problem. But, there are certain warning signs that may indicate that a family member or friend is using drugs and drinking too much alcohol.

If your friend or loved one has one or more of the following signs, he or she may have a problem with drugs or alcohol:

Getting high on drugs or getting drunk on a regular basis
Lying about things, or the amount of drugs or alcohol they are using
Avoiding you and others in order to get high or drunk
Giving up activities they used to do such as sports, homework, or hanging out with friends who don't use drugs or drink
having to use more marijuana or other illicit drugs to get the same effects constantly talking about using drugs or drinking
believing that in order to have fun they need to drink or use marijuana or other drugs
pressuring others to use drugs or drink
getting into trouble with the law
taking risks, including sexual risks and driving under the influence of alcohol and/or drugs
feeling run-down, hopeless, depressed, or even suicidal
suspension from school for an alcohol- or drug-related incident
missing work or poor work performance because of drinking or drug use
Many of the signs, such as sudden changes in mood, difficulty in getting along with others, poor job or school performance, irritability, and depression, might be explained by other causes. Unless you observe drug use or excessive drinking, it can be hard to determine the cause of these problems. Your first step is to contact a qualified alcohol and drug professional in your area who can give you further advice.

How Can I Tell if I Have a Problem with Drugs or Alcohol? How Can I Tell if I Have a Problem with Drugs or Alcohol?

Drug and alcohol problems can affect every one of us regardless of age, sex, race, marital status, place of residence, income level, or lifestyle.
You may have a problem with drugs or alcohol, if:
You can't predict whether or not you will use drugs or get drunk.
You believe that in order to have fun you need to drink and/or use drugs.
You turn to alcohol and/or drugs after a confrontation or argument, or to relieve uncomfortable feelings.
You drink more or use more drugs to get the same effect that you got with smaller amounts.
You drink and/or use drugs alone.
You remember how last night began, but not how it ended, so you're worried you may have a problem.
You have trouble at work or in school because of your drinking or drug use.
You make promises to yourself or others that you'll stop getting drunk or using drugs.
You feel alone, scared, miserable, and depressed.
If you have experienced any of the above problems, take heart, help is available. More than a million Americans like you have taken charge of their lives and are living healthy and drug-free.

How Can I Get Help?

You can get help for yourself or for a friend or loved one from numerous national, State, and local organizations, treatment centers, referral centers, and hotlines throughout the country. There are various kinds of treatment services and centers.

For example, some may involve outpatient counseling, while others may be 3- to 5-week-long inpatient programs.

While you or your friend or loved one may be hesitant to seek help, know that treatment programs offer organized and structured services with individual, group, and family therapy for people with alcohol and drug abuse problems. Research shows that when appropriate treatment is given, and when clients follow their prescribed program, treatment can work.

By reducing alcohol and/or drug abuse, treatment reduces costs to society in terms of medical care, law enforcement, and crime. More importantly, treatment can help keep you and your loved ones together.

Remember, some people may go through treatment a number of times before they are in full recovery. Do not give up hope.

Each community has its own resources. Some common referral sources that are often listed in the phone book are:

Community Drug Hotlines
Local Emergency Health Clinics, or Community Treatment Services
City/Local Health Departments
Alcoholics Anonymous, Narcotics Anonymous, or Al-Anon/Alateen


Marijuana is the most widely used illicit drug in the United States and tends to be the first illegal drug teens use.

The physical effects of marijuana use, particularly on developing adolescents, can be acute.

Short-term effects of using marijuana:

difficulty keeping track of time, impaired or reduced short-term memory
reduced ability to perform tasks requiring concentration and coordination, such as driving a car
increased heart rate
potential cardiac dangers for those with preexisting heart disease
bloodshot eyes
dry mouth and throat
decreased social inhibitions
paranoia, hallucinations
Long-term effects of using marijuana:
enhanced cancer risk decrease in
testosterone levels for men; also lower sperm counts and difficulty having children
increase in testosterone levels for women; also increased risk of infertility
diminished or extinguished sexual pleasure
psychological dependence requiring more of the drug to get the same effect
Marijuana blocks the messages going to your brain and alters your perceptions and emotions, vision, hearing, and coordination.
A recent study of 1,023 trauma patients admitted to a shock trauma unit found that one-third had marijuana in their blood.


Alcohol abuse is a pattern of problem drinking that results in health consequences, social, problems, or both. However, alcohol dependence, or alcoholism, refers to a disease that is characterized by abnormal alcohol-seeking behavior that leads to impaired control over drinking.

Short-term effects of alcohol use include:

distorted vision, hearing, and coordination
altered perceptions and emotions
impaired judgment
bad breath; hangovers
Long-term effects of heavy alcohol use include:
loss of appetite
vitamin deficiencies
stomach ailments
skin problems
sexual impotence
liver damage
heart and central
nervous system damage memory loss
How Do I Know If I, or Someone Close, Has a Drinking Problem?
Here are some quick clues:
Inability to control drinking--it seems that regardless of what you decide beforehand, you frequently wind up drunk
Using alcohol to escape problems
A change in personality--turning from Dr. Jekyl to Mr. Hyde
A high tolerance level--drinking just about everybody under the table
Blackouts--sometimes not remembering what happened while drinking
Problems at work or in school as a result of drinking
Concern shown by family and friends about drinking
If you have a drinking problem, or if you suspect you have a drinking problem, there are many others out there like you, and there is help available. Talk to school counselor, a friend, or a parent.

HERE ARE THE STRAIGHT FACTS...About Methamphetamine
Methamphetamine is a stimulant drug chemically related to amphetamine but with stronger effects on the central nervous system. Street names for the drug include "speed," "meth," and "crank."

Methamphetamine is used in pill form, or in powdered form by snorting or injecting. Crystallized methamphetamine known as "ice," "crystal," or "glass," is a smokable and more powerful form of the drug.

The effects of methamphetamine use include:

increased heart rate and blood pressure
increased wakefulness; insomnia
increased physical activity
decreased appetite
respiratory problems
extreme anorexia
hypothermia, convulsions, and cardiovascular problems, which can lead to death
irritability, confusion, tremors
anxiety, paranoia, or violent behavior
can cause irreversible damage to blood vessels in the brain, producing strokes
Methamphetamine users who inject the drug and share needles are at risk for acquiring HIV/AIDS.
Methamphetamine is an increasingly popular drug at raves (all night dancing parties), and as part of a number of drugs used by college-aged students. Marijuana and alcohol are commonly listed as additional drugs of abuse among methamphetamine treatment admissions. Most of the methamphetamine-related deaths (92%) reported in 1994 involved methamphetamine in combination with at least one other drug, most often alcohol (30%), heroin (23%), or cocaine (21%). Researchers continue to study the long-term effects of methamphetamine use.

HERE ARE THE STRAIGHT FACTS...About Cocaine and Crack Cocaine

Cocaine is a white powder that comes from the leaves of the South American coca plant. Cocaine is either "snorted" through the nasal passages or injected intravenously. Cocaine belongs to a class of drugs known as stimulants, which tend to give a temporary illusion of limitless power and energy that leave the user feeling depressed, edgy, and craving more. Crack is a smokable form of cocaine that has been chemically altered. Cocaine and crack are highly addictive. This addiction can erode physical and mental health and can become so strong that these drugs dominate all aspects of an addict's life.

Physical risks associated with using any amount of cocaine and crack:

increases in blood
pressure, heart rate, breathing rate, and body temperature
heart attacks, strokes, and respiratory failure
hepatitis or AIDS through shared needles
brain seizures
reduction of the body's ability to resist and combat infection
Psychological risks:
violent, erratic, or paranoid behavior
hallucinations and "coke bugs"--a sensation of imaginary insects crawling over the skin
confusion, anxiety and depression, loss of interest in food or sex
"cocaine psychosis"--losing touch with reality, loss of interest in friends, family, sports, hobbies, and other activities
Some users spend hundred or thousands of dollars on cocaine and crack each week and will do anything to support their habit. Many turn to drug selling, prostitution, or other crimes.
Cocaine and crack use has been a contributing factor in a number of drownings, car crashes, falls, burns, and suicides.
Cocaine and crack addicts often become unable to function sexually.
Even first time users may experience seizures or heart attacks, which can be fatal.

Hallucinogenic drugs are substances that distort the perception of objective reality. The most well-known hallucinogens include phencyclidine, otherwise known as PCP, angel dust, or loveboat; lysergic acid diethylamide, commonly known as LSD or acid; mescaline and peyote; and psilocybin, or "magic" mushrooms.

Under the influence of hallucinogens, the senses of direction, distance, and time become disoriented. These drugs can produce unpredictable, erratic, and violent behavior in users that sometimes leads to serious injuries and death. The effect of hallucinogens can last for 12 hours.

LSD produces tolerance, so that users who take the drug repeatedly must take higher and higher doses in order to achieve the same state of intoxication. This is extremely dangerous, given the unpredictability of the drug, and can result in increased risk of convulsions, coma, heart and lung failure, and even death.

Physical risks associated with using hallucinogens:

increased heart rate and blood pressure
sleeplessness and tremors
lack of muscular coordination
sparse, mangled, and incoherent speech
decreased awareness of touch and pain that can result in self-inflicted injuriesconvulsions
coma; heart and lung failure
Psychological risks associated with using hallucinogens:
a sense of distance and estrangement
depression, anxiety, and paranoia
violent behavior
confusion, suspicion, and loss of control
behavior similar to schizophrenic psychosis
catatonic syndrome whereby the user becomes mute, lethargic, disoriented, and makes meaningless repetitive movements
Everyone reacts differently to hallucinogens--there's no way to predict if you can avoid a "bad trip."


Inhalants refer to substances that are sniffed or huffed to give the user an immediate head rush or high. They include a diverse group of chemicals that are found in consumer products such as aerosols and cleaning solvents. Inhalant use can cause a number of physical and emotional problems, and even one-time use can result in death.

Using inhalants even one time can put you at risk for:

sudden death
visual hallucinations and severe mood swings
numbness and tingling of the hands and feet
Prolonged use can result in:
headache, muscle weakness, abdominal pain
decrease or loss of sense of smell
nausea and nosebleeds
violent behaviors
irregular heartbeat
liver, lung, and kidney impairment
irreversible brain damage
nervous system damage
dangerous chemical imbalances in the body
involuntary passing of urine and feces
Short-term effects of inhalants include:
heart palpitations
breathing difficulty
Remember, using inhalants, even one time, can kill you. According to medical experts, death can occur in at least five ways:
asphyxia--solvent gases can significantly limit available oxygen in the air, causing breathing to stop;
suffocation--typically seen with inhalant users who use bags;
choking on vomit;
careless behaviors in potentially dangerous settings; and
sudden sniffing death syndrome, presumably from cardiac arrest.

Messages for Teenagers

Know the law.

Methamphetamines, marijuana, hallucinogens, crack, cocaine, and many other substances are illegal. Depending on where you are caught, you could face high fines and jail time. Alcohol is illegal to buy or possess if you are under 21.

Be aware of the risks. Drinking or using drugs increases the risk of injury. Car crashes, falls, burns, drowning, and suicide are all linked to drug use.

Keep your edge. Drug use can ruin your looks, make you depressed, and contribute to slipping grades.

Play it safe. One incident of drug use could make you do something that you will regret for a lifetime.

Do the smart thing. Using drugs puts your health, education, family ties, and social life at risk.
Get with the program. Doing drugs isn't "in" anymore.

Think twice about what you're advertising when you buy and wear T-shirts, hats, pins, or jewelry with a pot leaf, joint, blunt, beer can, or other drug paraphernalia on them. Do you want to promote something that can cause cancer? make you forget things? or make it difficult to drive a car?

Face your problems. Using drugs won't help you escape your problems, it will only create more.
Be a real friend. If you know someone with a drug problem, be part of the solution. Urge your friend to get help.

Remember, you DON'T NEED drugs or alcohol. If you think "everybody's doing it," you're wrong! Over 86% of 12-17 year-olds have never tried marijuana; over 98% have never used cocaine; only about half a percent of them have ever used crack. Doing drugs won't make you happy or popular or help you to learn the skills you need as you grow up. In fact, doing drugs can cause you to fail at all of these things.

Adult Children of Alcoholics(ACA/ACoA)P.O. Box 3216Torrance, CA 90510310-534-1815
Alanon/AlateenFamily Group Headquarters, Inc.P.O. Box 862Midtown StationNew York, NY 10018-08621-800-356-9996 (Literature)1-800-344-2666 (Meeting Referral)
Alcoholics AnonymousWorld Services, Inc.475 Riverside DriveNew York, NY 10115212-870-3400 (Literature)212-647-1680 (Meeting Referral)
CDC National AIDS Hotline1-800-342-AIDS1-800-344-SIDA --Spanish1-800-AIDS-TTY TDD
Center for Substance Abuse TreatmentNational Drug and Alcohol Treatment Referral Service1-800-662-HELPReferrals To:
1-800-448-3000 BOYSTOWN
Children of Alcoholics Foundation, Inc.555 Madison Avenue, 20th FloorNew York, NY 10022212-754-0656 or 800-359-COAF
Cocaine AnonymousWorld Service Office3740 Overland Avenue, Ste. CLos Angeles, CA 900341-800-347-8998
Families AnonymousP.O. Box 35475Culver CIty, CA 902311-800-736-9805
Hazelden Educational MaterialsPleasant Valley RoadP.O. Box 176Center City, MN 55012-01761-800-328-9000
Marijuana AnonymousWorld ServicesP.O. Box 2912Van Nuys, CA 914041-800-766-6779
Mothers Against Drunk Driving (MADD)511 E. John Carpenter FreewaySuite 700Irving, TX 75062214-744-6233Victim Hotline: 800-438-6233 (GET MADD)
NAFARE Alcohol, Drug, and Pregnancy Hotline200 N. Michigan AvenueChicago, IL 606011-800-638-BABY
Nar-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.P.O. Box 2562Palos Verdes Peninsula, CA 90274310-547-5800
Narcotics Anonymous (NA)World Service OfficeP.O. Box 9999Van Nuys, CA 91409818-773-9999
National Association for Children of Alcoholics11426 Rockville Pike, Suite 301Rockville, MD 20852301-468-0985
National Clearinghouse for Alcohol and Drug InformationP.O. Box 2345Rockville, MD 20847-2345301-468-26001-800-729-6686
National Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence12 West 21st Street, 7th FloorNew York, NY 100101-800-NCA-CALL (will refer you to your local treatment information center)
National Families in Action2296 Henderson Mill RoadSuite 204Atlanta, GA 30345770-934-6364National Highway Traffic Safety Information400 7th Street, SWWashington, DC 20590202-366-9550Auto Safety Hotline: 1-800-424-9393
National Women's Health Network514 10th Street, NW, Ste. 400Washington, DC 20004202-682-7814
Rational Recovery SystemsP. O. Box 800Lotus, CA 956511-800-303-CURE
Secular Organizations for Sobriety (SOS)P.O. Box 5Buffalo, NY 14215310-821-8430
Women for SobrietyP.O. Box 618Quakertown, PA 189511-800-333-1606

Saturday, October 25, 2008

Oscar Winner Jennifer Hudson's Mother, Brother Slain in Chicago...Possible Domestic Violence!

CHICAGO – The mother and brother of Jennifer Hudson were found shot dead Friday at a South Side home, and police were looking for a missing child who is the nephew of the singer and Oscar-winning actress.

A man suspected in the deaths was in custody Friday night, but the 7-year-old boy had not been located, according to published reports.

William Balfour was being questioned, but Julian King's whereabouts were not known, law enforcement sources told the Chicago Tribune and Chicago Sun-Times. Balfour has not been charged.

Police spokeswoman Monique Bond said investigators were talking to "a number of people in custody" but she declined to elaborate.
An Amber Alert issued Friday said Balfour was a suspect in the double homicide of Darnell Donerson, 57, and Jason Hudson, 29, whose bodies were found Friday afternoon in a South Side home.

Jennifer Hudson's personal publicist, Lisa Kasteler, confirmed the deaths.

"We can confirm that there is an ongoing investigation concerning the deaths of Jennifer Hudson's mother, Darnell Donerson, and her brother, Jason Hudson," Kasteler said in a statement. "No further comment will be made and the family has asked that their privacy be respected at this difficult time."

The deaths appeared to be the result of domestic abuse, Bond said. The Cook County medical examiner's office said autopsies for Donerson and Jason Hudson were pending.

Deputy Chief Joseph Patterson said a family member entered the home around 3 p.m. Friday, found a woman shot on the living room floor and left to notify authorities. Responding officers found a man shot in the bedroom, Patterson said. There was no sign of forced entry.

Police tape blocked access to the large, white house, where a crowd gathered outside. Investigators with dogs and flashlights searched foliage surrounding a church that faces the home.

Authorities issued the Amber Alert for King and sought a 1994 white Chevrolet Suburban. The child was the grandson of the female victim, officials said.

The alert said the child was possibly abducted and could be accompanied by Balfour, who was considered armed and dangerous and called a suspect in the double homicide investigation.

Records from the Illinois Department of Corrections show Balfour, 27, is on parole and spent nearly seven years in prison for attempted murder, vehicular hijacking and possessing a stolen vehicle. Public records show one of Balfour's addresses as the home where Donerson and Jason Hudson were shot.

The alert said the boy could also be in a teal or green Chrysler Concorde with a temporary license plate, a left front headlight hanging out and scratches on the left side of the vehicle.

The tragedy comes as Hudson, who grew up in Chicago, continues to reach new heights in her career. Her song "Spotlight" is No. 1 on Billboard's Hot R&B/Hip-Hop charts and her recently released, self-tiled debut album has been a top seller. She was featured in this year's blockbuster "Sex and the City" movie and is also starring in the hit film "The Secret Life of Bees."

She won an Academy Award for best supporting actress in 2007 for her role in "Dreamgirls." In an interview last year with Vogue, Hudson credited her mother with encouraging her to audition for "American Idol," which launched her career.

The singer, whose father died when she was a teenager, described herself as very close to her family. In a recent AP interview she said her family, which includes older siblings Julia and Jason, helped keep her grounded.

"My faith in God and my family, they're very realistic and very normal, they're not into the whole limelight kind of thing, so when I go home to Chicago that's just another place that's home," she said. "I stand in line with everybody else, or, when I go home to my mom I'm just Jennifer, (so she says), 'You get up and you take care of your own stuff.' And I love that; I don't like when people tell you everything you want to hear, I want to hear the truth, you know what I mean."

Hudson recently announced her engagement to David Otunga, best known for his stint on VH1's reality show "I Love New York."

Sunday, October 12, 2008

"JOHN" The Most Famous Call-In Talk Show Listener in Memphis!

Name: John Douglass
DOB: 11/24/1951 Sagittarius
Height : 6’ 2”
Weight: 185

John, tell me something about yourself that the listeners may not know.
When I was 6 years old I was hit by a car and that made it hard for me to learn. I only went as far as the 10th grade in school and most of that was due to social promotions. I donot consider my self a trouble maker but sometimes people take me the wrong way and this has caused me to become a little paranoid.

John, what type of woman do you like?
I want someone who is kind and considerate. I like a woman that does not fly off the handle easily. I want someone who is easy to get along with. I don’t like bossy women. I want a woman who will take me as I am, because as you can see I do not have much (material things) to offer a woman.

John, how long ago were you in a serious relationship?
Three to four years ago.

John, what do you want in a woman?
I just like a good looking woman. I like young women; 18-19 however I am open to the age of 18-50. And yes, I will date outside of my race. I know a lot of people will think I am a dirty old man but I like young women.

What type of relationship are you interested in having?
I am in interested in casual dating, because when things get serious women often mislead me and they have other motives in mind.

John have you ever been married?

John do you have any children?

John, will you date a woman with children?
Yes, the last woman I was involved with had 5 kids. And her kids loved me.

John do you work?

Where and when was your last job?
I worked for Memphis Housing Authority in 1981. I worked in maintenance.

John what are your hobbies and what do you enjoy doing for fun?
I enjoy going to clubs, including shake joints. I enjoy music. I like blues, disco and hip hop

John do you dance?
I use to, but I hurt my leg and now I just sit and listen to the music.

So, John tell me why a woman would want to go out with you.
I am a really nice guy. I like to take a woman out. I enjoy going to fun places. I don’t have no problems. I don’t have no mess.

John, you say you are nice to women, give me an example of something that you have done in the past that most people would consider nice.
In my last relationship, I use to take my woman shopping.

John, how long have you been calling the local radio station talk shows?
For over 17 years.
John, what is different about you now?
In the past people use to pick on me a lot and most of that was because I let them. But now I do not let people pick on me anymore. I often come across negative, but I really try to focus on the positive.

John, what do you want to get out of this whole experience?
I am really not expecting too much, because I know I do not look good to a lot people. I know I do not have a lot to offer. A lot of people think I am strange. I am open for anything. I will meet anybody. I do not expect too much, I will live even if no one wants to meet me.

Thursday, October 9, 2008



Shay Your Date Diva, Dated Over 100 Men in Nine Months to Find 30 Day Love Formula!

Relationship and dating expert uses own dating experience, research, and case studies to show others how to find love in 30 days.

Shay Williams, from Alanta, Georgia, known to her fans as "Shay Your Date Diva" found dating to be a nightmare when she entered the dating game after her divorce. She cites that she learned that many single moms, just like her were also experiencing horrifying dating challenges.

Striking out did not stop "Shay Your Date Diva" and she set out on a mission to unlock the mystery of dating and finding love while being a single mom. Along the way, she discovered how single women can also find love. Certainly, no easy task for "Shay Your Date Diva" who dated over 100 men in nine months to author her hot selling manual "Single Moms Dating Guide to Catching The Man of Your Dreams in 30 Days."

This handy instructional manual; focuses on guiding single moms on how-to find love and find love fast. "Shay Your Date Diva" reveals that besides dating over 100 men in nine months, she read over 50 relationship books, interviewed hundreds of men, women, and also couples.
"I discovered that there were common natural behaviors women do that either turn men off or turn men on or make men want to love, cherish and honor them," stated Shay Williams, "Shay Your Date Diva."

She continues that because she was newly divorced when she entered the dating game, she had no clue about how the dating scene worked. Her lack of knowledge she stresses caused her to push men away and after one heart break after another she decided to go on a journey to uncover the secrets of understanding men, dating patterns and what it takes to attract the right man and win his heart no matter who he is or what a woman looks like.